It struck me this morning as I was dealing with some super challenging behaviour stuff that the qualities that we find most difficult in our children may actually be some of the most incredible qualities that may serve them in their life as adults?
Let me explain.
Sometimes we are so quick to judge parts of our children that we can overlook the benefit to this part of them that triggers us.
Lets look at some of the difficult qualities in our kids and look at how we can most appreciate these qualities.
The way we frame and reframe challenges define our kids and also define how we see the world
Are your kids any of the below?
If so which one? (Answer in solution focused only)
I’ll start! My kids are ‘expressive and passionate and finding their way’
Where are your kids?
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